So… I’m on a Journey! But really who isnt?
I guess what I mean is, I have yet to reach my destination but i am heading in that direction.
Anyways, one of thoughts that has been permeating in brain as of recently goes as follows…
‘you can convince yourself of anything, as long as you say it enough’
I had this experience once. I was meant to meet up with someone late one evening, someone I had not seen for a few months. Now this person is great, fun to talk to, loving, caring, just plain great. But for these months that I had not seen the person I had spent much of the time thinking on the bad things of the relationship. Perhaps blaming them for things that I was not happy with in life. I has spoken about the bad things. I had thought about the disappointments. When the day came to see this person again I found myself less than pleased about the experience that would proceed. When the two of us met up, we laughed, chatted and had a great time! I could barely believe how badly I made this person out to be in my mind. Now, this bothered me. To be so convinced of something that was so far from truth
How did this happen?
The truth is, at least for me, that when my mind gets a crazy idea, no matter how wild, if I don’t process it through it festers and becomes this giant fallacy based on nothing. Literally nothing.
The simplest way I can tell you to solve this…. Face the problem! With the relationship as soon as I saw them again I knew I had been wrong.
Either way, know the truth, and get over your silly stupid thoughts!
